Why do people want to hurt me?

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people keep making me feel like SH*T and i bet they enjoy it, 1st it was teachers in high school, then it was the school nurse and counselor (when somebody had to tell them i was cutting myself), then it was my mom (she nags a lot and when i told her i was depressed she told me to snap out of it and she keeps trying to shame me out of cutting by treating me like a little kid (im 19 and a graduated high school)) and now its my dad (keeps spewing negativity at me, yells a lot, and just yelled at me for not doing the laundry (it was in the dryer and the dryer was on and instead of telling me its done he keeps yelling at me which doesnt do anything but hurt me)) and my head hurts and i really wanna cut myself right now.

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Best Answer
You should go to the ER and get the help you need.

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Other Answers
1: Well...your now out of school and your still mad at your teachers and the school nurse..oh..and the school's counselor,right? Now it's your mother,because she nags all the time(a lot) and she tells you to just "snap out of this depression)" you say you have.I'm just going to STOP myself right now!! I'm not going to continue this anymore simply due to the FACT...that you are a 19 year old ADULT.You should be out on your own by now and have your own place to live and be paying your OWN bills.Now your b1tch1ng about drying the laundry...and how everyone is against you? You need to do 2 things,ok?............1. Move out of your parents house and get your OWN place to live and fend for yourself.2.Get help for your cutting issues.I want to add 1 more to the pile..3.GROW UP. You weren't put on this earth to blame everyone for your problems...but good luck anyways.

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2: Well, to be perfectly honest, if you don't like your parents' house then start saving money and move out. Sure, they're going about the situation incorrectly and are the ones in the wrong, but what can you do? You're nineteen, dude. Just get out of there.

You know, you could also try hiding your cuts from them. Then they have nothing to yell at you about. I've been doing it for years and my mom doesn't even know at all.

EDIT -- Excuse you, Jennifer? I gave the exact same advice you did, moron. And when the **** did I say "lol"? Dumbass. Learn to read. And nothing about what the **** I'm doing with MY life needs "growing up" -- I work, and go to college, and DON'T whine about my cutting to anyone for attention. I KEEP IT A SECRET because I AM a grown-*** adult and it's MY private business. So next time, don't pass immature judgement on people you know nothing about. F_u_c_k_head.